Monday, November 21, 2011

No really Honey,the Diapers are All I Want for Christmas!!

Do you know where this is headed...?
If you don't,I could give you a moment to read a few of my other cloth diaper posts...eh,never mind.
Promises I can keep-until I'm let out of them!

Yes,okay,okay-I did it,I bought MORE diapers.
Hubs read my blog about feeling lost without my diaper shopping need being fulfilled-and what does he do? He lets me off restriction and tells me I can spend $xxx on diapers;so there is my Christmas present.
What else could a girl ask for other than cute fluffy mail?

But,I am really pretty much-well,almost done buying any more diapers;they do have a really cool Fuzzibunz in black that I would love to have-even hubby would love it-but it goes without saying that I have enough diapers.
So,unless I sell some,the option of purchasing more is out of the question.
Hubby says "If you're gonna spend money,at least switch it up a bit and buy something else;we have enough diapers!!"
Okay....But,I did order the 'Changing Diapers' book,so any new tips are great!

I do feel that I sometimes don't have enough inserts-I double the micro-terry in every one of the 'big boy' diapers,so I use them all every time!
But,as I discovered today while putting all my nicely washed and folded nappies away: I have too many diapers.
I have heard moms say "Oh,you can never have too many diapers!"
Ha! Well,I have too little room then,cause there is no squeezing anymore diapers anywhere-at least anywhere they SHOULD be (although I suppose I could store some under my bed....)

My count is about 80 diapers-a lot I know! But I think it's a good number,since when Jeremiah goes to his grandma's overnight and he takes 1/10 of them in his bag,it leaves my stash looking a bit pitiful!
So,I bought more during the 'double diaper dollar rewards' promotion.

And I have another coming in the mail-but in my defense,the one I'm waiting for I actually won!!
I am so super,duper excited to try it out!
It's a FLIP Trainer system and I am really hoping it will work for Caleb so we can kiss night time pull-ups goodbye!

I did finally admit to myself-somewhat like a smack upside the head-that I have too many diapers and my little 'habit' needs a long break.

Guess I'll be using all those 'diaper rewards dollars' for detergent

Sunday, November 20, 2011

Man V Diapers.......

Men and diapers.....I guess it's either all or nothing.
Maybe I'm lucky that he changes diapers at all;other moms note how their husbands won't change stinky diapers-others won't change them at all,poopy or not.
My hubby has always stepped right up when and if needed to change even the most explosive diapers.

That being said,I have a confession.......I don't exactly have hubby 100% won over to cloth diapers.
He doesn't mind that I bought them and he thinks that it's great if we will save money (yeah right,with my diaper addiction any thought of saving money will be out the window soon!).
But he is quick to want to throw in the towel (diaper) when it isn't as easy as he thinks it should be.


For instance,he gets frustrated with the snaps and aggravated when the snaps aren't lined up correctly.
The poopy diapers are a new experience and to him it seems more convenient to just roll up the whole mess and throw it away.
He does change the diapers and boy do I hear about it!

"Stinkin things,I can't stand these stupid snaps!"
"Honey,it takes time to get used to them;once you know where they should be on each boy it will be easier for you"
Mumble,mumble........

"Yuck! I hate these liners,I can't tolerate touching them-it's disgusting!"
"If you prefer,we don't have to use them...I just thought they might make clean-up easier for when they poo"
"Well,I don't like 'em!"
OK then.....

$#@% !! I just got poop on my hand!!
"It happens,calm down...here let me....."
Apparently men get very easily disturbed when it comes to poop.


"You're poopy again?!"
"Honey,I can get that...."
"No,I don't mind changing him,but not in these diapers!"
Right.....

Hubby is okay with me buying diapers and he thinks its healthier for their 'boy parts'-but changing them,yeah,I think he would prefer Disposables still.
Although,I did hear him telling his aunt on the phone that he thinks cloth diapers are the way to go.......

Maybe I'm closer to about 82.67% ??

Tuesday, November 8, 2011

Craving.....Diapers??

OK,so I love to shop;finding good deals and spending money to have new things is a hobby of mine.
I recently learned that cloth diapering comes with a never ending desire to shop.
That desire to shop-if met-can be quite gratifying!
So when I made a promise to hubby that I would not purchase any more diapers until after Christmas,I didn't stop and think of the impending withdrawals from which I would soon suffer!

Getting mail (as long as it's not bills) invigorates me;getting fluffy mail is like doubling that feeling!

I did win a random drawing entitling me to a free diaper-but that didn't do anything but wet my appetite and remind me of how fun it is to browse,select and receive those delightfully fluffy packages!

Then Kellyscloset just announced a limited time 'double diaper dollars rewards' program;I've gotten a lot of free diapers by using my rewards!
Ugh.
Why did I make that promise?
Hubby already feels badly for me (in all my agony) and offered to let me indulge in buying one diaper....ONE?!
I promptly told him "No thank you!" as this would seem rather unpleasant in comparison to selecting and receiving a whole box full of them!

Would it be bad to attempt an 'innocent' explanation of why now would be a wonderful and money saving time to buy more diapers-with the rewards program doubling and all......
No,I guess that wouldn't be fair....Hubs can't and won't tell me no.

Several cloth diaper manufacturers are releasing new designs and colors and I am so anxious to get them!
I am famished!
My diaper buying habit needs to be fed!

I have resorted to placing my insatiable need for fluff into the hands of giveaways!
I mean really,it worked once,maybe it will work again.
Or maybe hubby will cave and give back my diaper allowance.
I could always ask for fluff for Christmas......


31 diapers = two days worth

Friday, November 4, 2011

Poop happens.......in threes?!?!?

Yesterday I experienced a once-in-a-lifetime occurrence: All three of my younger ones took a nap at the same time!

I was particularly elated since this gave me the time to finish up a couple of blogs while my children slept ever so peacefully;I don't get downtime during daylight hours very often!

Hubby had to leave for work before my little angels even started to stir;I walked him to the door and our conversation went like this:

Me "I hope you have a good day at work;I love you"
Hubby "Love you too;try to enjoy the quiet time before they wake up"
Me "I can't believe they are all sleeping!"
Hubby "Yeah,now watch them all be poopy when they wake up"

OK.STOP.RIGHT.THERE.

Did he just wish they would all wake up with full diapers?!?
The chance of that ever happening probably seems relatively slim,but regardless,I wouldn't wish that on anyone.....

Shortly after hubby drove away,I began to hear soft singing and jabbering from upstairs-my little monkeys were awakening from their naps!

I opened door one.... "Whoa! Okay,you're stinky"
No biggie;I cleaned up child number one and was exceptionally relieved when it was over.

I then headed to door number two...."OH NO! You've got to be kidding me?!?!"
He appeared to be rather proud of himself-almost too proud.
He almost seemed to have been in cahoots with his older brother,scheming together as if to say "ha ha,let's really blow this one up!"

By the time I got around to door number three,I walked in without hesitation,scooped up child number three and declared "OK,I'm not happy with your father;I know you're stinky so let's just get this over with".
Yep.He was stinky too.

ALL.THREE.BOYS.POOPY.

That has never happened to me before and I would've done just as well if it never had.
But...poop happens.

On a positive note,we have only had 2 blow-outs where the poo seeped out of the diaper at all;with disposables it seemed every other stinky diaper leaked out somehow.

I am SUPER amazed at how clean the diapers get!
I also LOVE,love,love RubyMoon cloth diaper detergent!
It smells so good and my whole basement has a yummy vanilla scent!
I will post a review on all of my cloth diaper essentials once I have been using them a bit longer.

He looks so innocent doesn't he?

Thursday, November 3, 2011

Do you really know the difference?

I knew there was potential to save money using cloth diapers.
I have discovered how cute cloth diapers are and that they are fun to buy!
My boys seem to be comfortable in cloth diapers and it's not that difficult to clean them.
There is something I didn't know:

Disposables could cause future problems with our babies!

This is one of those instances where parents just aren't being informed and big companies make big bucks off of it.
I'm not saying that disposables are deadly-and I'm not suggesting that cloth diapering is the right thing for everyone.
It is just another example of how much Americans eagerly conform to what society considers acceptable.

Please take time to read the following information~

(The following can also be viewed here at the original source)



Cloth Diapers vs Disposable : Your Baby's Health

In the battle of cloth diapers vs disposable, which are better for your baby's health?

Popular brands of disposable diapers today contain a wide variety of toxic chemicals. Cloth can have an impact on health, too, though. Which should you choose?

Boys wearing disposable diapers had scrotal temperatures almost 20 F degrees higher than boys wearing cloth. This could lead to fertility issues later in life. Mice experienced asthma like symptoms when exposed to disposable diapers.

They experienced no symptoms when exposed to cloth. Many children experienced horrible burn-like rashes likely caused by the chemicals in disposables, though the manufacturers won't admit to this.

Disposable diaper companies will not tell anyone what is in their diapers and due to some quirks in the current law avoid reporting their ingredients even though they share many of the same ingredients as other personal care products.

Cloth Diapers vs Disposable: Diaper Rash

A major diaper manufacturer did their own study to determine the incidence of diaper rash and found that diaper rash increased from 7.1% to 61% with the increased use of disposable diapers over cloth diapers. Since disposable diapers cause more diaper rash, resulting in you having to take more time to try to help heal the rash and buy more products to fix it. Diaper rash can, of course, still occur with cloth diapers, but you can choose to use only natural materials that breathe to reduce the chance of this happening, and if your cloth diapers start causing redness, you may find that stripping them or changing how you clean your cloth diapers can solve the issue.

Cloth Diapers vs Disposable: Toxic Chemicals: Cancer, Infertility, Endocrine Issues

Disposable diapers are host to myriad toxic chemicals. These are released from disposable diapers during normal every day use. When you see that something causes eye, skin, and lung irritation please remember that if the body is acting inflamed it is trying to fight off something that is causing harm to it. Therefore, obvious symptoms like eye and skin irritation can be a sign that there is more going on inside the body. If your child's immune system has to spend a lot of time fighting foreign chemicals, it has less resources available when your child is exposed to bacteria and viruses. We may vaccinate our children and worry about their health, but then assault their developing immune systems with toxic chemicals, leaving them vulnerable.



Since most diaper manufacturers refuse to share their diaper's ingredients, we only know what chemicals they may be using by what is emitted by the diapers. Here is a list of some of the chemicals that were emitted from disposable diapers:

  • Xylene: neurotoxin, toxic to endocrine and respiratory systems.

  • Ethyl Benzene: neurotoxin, toxic to endocrine and respiratory systems.

  • Styerene: carcinogenic (cancer-causing.)

  • Isopropylene: neurotoxin

  • Dioxin: Released during bleaching process. Toxic to endocrine system,

  • liver, skin, and the most toxic of all cancer causing chemicals. In very small quantities, it can cause birth defects and genetic damage. It is banned in most countries but of course not in the US.
  • Tributyl-tin (TBT) - Endocrine disruptor

  • Sodium Polyacrylate (see picture above)- The gel like beads you find stuck to your baby's bum. They can absorb 1,000 times their weight in water, which is why they are used. Creates dust that can cause lung and eye irritation. These were removed from tampons because they were leading to toxic shock syndrome. It has caused health problems in women who work in the factories where they manufacture it, and it has killed children who have ingested 5 grams or less of the stuff. It can cause severe skin reactions and has been associated with staph infections in babies.

  • Fragrance - fragrances often contain phthalates and other unidentified substances because companies do not have to disclose the ingredients used in “fragrance” because they'd protected their product, calling the ingredients a “trade secret.”

  • Other plastics, polyurethane, adhesives, glues, inks elastics, lubricants: can cause skin irritation and also often contain toxic chemicals like formaldehyde which are toxic to the respiratory system.



  • No long term studies have ever been done to discover if these chemicals might be having any long-term effects on babies who are in contact with them for 2 to 3 years straight. Their reproductive effects are especially of concern since these chemicals are up against baby's reproductive organs during this time. (We do know that cancer rates are rising and that men's sperm counts are lower than they have ever been, however.)

    Sunday, October 30, 2011

    No,Don't Flush!!

    Interesting the things that won't go down with the rampaging waters in a toilet bowl....

    After being toilet flushing,restroom using adults for as many years as hubby and I have,you would think we would know better than to make a moronic attempt at flushing baby wipes.
    This is what we call diaper-changing-wipe-flushing fail.
     
    It gets worse.
    Since the toilet water won't subside hubby tries to flush it again....And it fills up to the top of the bowl with water.
    Now,I don't know if you've ever run into this issue,but plunging a toilet that is overflowing is messy!
    Hubby was making a bona fide attempt at fixing our plumbing problem-actually he seemed to be assaulting my toilet as I stood by making my best effort to refrain from making remarks of 'why the toilet was clogged in the first place'.


    Hubby is not one to hold back his opinion of anything and it didn't take long for him to declare "I'm done changing poopy diapers!!"





    This led to a back-and-forth something like this:

    Me "It has nothing to do with the poopy diaper!"
    Hubby "Stupid toilet!"
    Me "Who tries to flush a toilet before you know the water will go down if it's already full?!"
    Hubby "I know what I'm doing!"
    Me "If that's the case then why is my bathroom floor waterlogged?"
    Hubby "Its the stupid toilet...everything in this apartment is a piece of crap!"
    Me "I've been changing diapers for 3 weeks now and never flooded the bathroom!"
    Hubby "Good,then you can change all the diapers!"
    Me "You could offer a suggestion instead!!"


    OK,so you see,this all started because of the ignorant decision to flush baby wipes down the toilet.
    Most of the poo ends up either on the biodegradable liner or on the diaper itself.
    What we are trying to figure out is what to do with the disposable wipes;we aren't ready (don't want) to switch to cloth wipes yet,so what are we supposed to do with them?

    So I am here to appeal to my readers and friends-what SHOULD we do with the wipes??


    By the way,we did manage to get the toilet unclogged and my bathroom has been sanitized.
    Moral of this story is DON'T FLUSH baby wipes!

    *I can't express the satisfaction I have knowing that I needed to check the Thesaurus for words that meant 'STUPID' so I could better describe our actions.....

    Friday, October 28, 2011

    Why people think Cloth diapering is insane and why it's not~From someone who once thought it was

    If you would've asked me even a couple of months ago what I thought about cloth diapering,my response might have been something like this:
    "I tried it when my oldest was a baby and it's just not for me"
    Or
    "We have 3 boys in diapers-are you kidding me?? I'd be doing laundry all the time"
    Or
    "Ewww! I am really grossed out by poo-no thank you!"

    Well things changed when I realized I was..well,not as crunchy as I thought I could be.
    Being who I am I thought "Hey,I can do that!".
    So here we are nearly three weeks into cloth diapering and I actually like it!
    It made me realize that there are myths and misunderstandings about cloth diapering;I used to feel the way most people do about it,so let's try to debunk some of those misconceptions.......

    *Let's start with my personal favorite and why I didn't cloth diaper for so long

    "Eww,I hate poop and I'll have to get all nasty to clean them!"

    Okay,first of all having babies you will eventually have to touch something covered in poop-that is unless you gave birth to a baby who doesn't poop.
    Secondly,it doesn't have to be done the way your mother or grandmother did it.
    Some parent's get ridiculously lucky and have a child who produces a more solid poo;I happen to be a parent of children who poop like there's an explosive packed behind it.
    We made it all of about 3 days before we ordered an amazing contraption: A Diaper Sprayer!
    It makes clean-up simple and quick.
    If it happens to be an exceptionally messy diaper,you can pair the sprayer with a handy pair of rubber gloves!



    *Another thought that sat in the back of my mind

    "They can't possibly contain very much and they will leak unless I change them constantly!"

    So far we have only experienced 2 leaks and they were both because we'd gone too long between changes.
    When our boys were in disposables they leaked a lot of the time-especially at night and we'd need to wash their bedding 4-5 times per week because of this.
    Blow-outs were always bad in the disposables and their clothes were constantly getting soiled.
    As far as changing your baby,well it needs done when they are wet....we actually go through less diaper changes in a day than we did with disposables.


    *Yet another one that turned me off from cloth

    "Ugh,I don't want to fold and pin them and then use those ugly old pull on plastic pants!"


    OK,this one I need take time and word very carefully.....
    Some people still use the 'old fashioned' style flats and prefolds;some even use diaper pins still.
    My mother used the p.p.p (pins,prefolds and pants) combo and it worked for her.
    For whatever reason this just doesn't settle with me-maybe it's the leftover lazy streak from when I was a kid....

    There are so many options for cloth diapering now-so many that it's completely overwhelming when you first start out.
    There are snaps,velcro (aplix) and also options that tie and some use a rubber gripper instead of pins.
    You don't have to go with covers,but if you do they have a selection of waterproof pants that are actually very attractive.
    You can buy pocket style or all-in-ones and they look like regular diapers-but come in a variety of cute colors and prints.
    ( "Hi,my name is Denee and I am an addict" - you've been warned it can become quite addicting when you see sales and new products!)


    *Another one-my second worse fear!

    "I'll be doing so much laundry my head will start spinning!"



    Well,if you have a decent size stash,the diapers won't be so bad.
    I have 3 boys wearing them;I do a load every day out of habit,but I could go down to every two days.
    On average they soil 15 diapers per day between the three of them;so one load of laundry every other day isn't that bad at all.
    One thing I need to touch on is that like I mentioned before,we always had to wash bedding and extra clothing because the disposables couldn't withstand the floods and bombs that my boys produced.
    I was doing MORE laundry as a side affect of using disposables.



    *This one I was never convinced of

    "Cloth diapers are just more expensive all around"


    Well,that depends.
    There are so many ways to approach this;first I'll tell you the ways in which you'll be spending money on cloth diapers:

    1) The diapers.
    Whichever type you choose will influence the amount you put into it.
    The average is about $15 each (some are much more and some are less) and for a decent stash for one baby you'll want around 20 diapers.
    This is of course based on someone who isn't just drawn purchasing more...and more.

    2) Liners and a diaper sprayer
    The liners are optional;we use them because they make cleanup easier most of the time.
    We may eventually stop using them since they aren't completely necessary.
    Liners are about $7-8 for a roll of 100-but we hand wash and reuse them if they are just wet.

    A diaper sprayer runs you about $40-again,some are more or less.
    You can construct your own for around $17.


    3)Detergent
    You do need to purchase a laundry detergent that is cloth diaper friendly.
    I have found one I really like-it is $13 and will last me probably about 6 weeks.
    Now you CAN make your own (I'm not brave enough yet) for about $22 and it will last you over a year.

    This is a handy diaper calculator which tells about how much I might save using cloth for my boys.
    Note,you can try it yourself specific to your needs by clicking the link at the bottom of the post!



    *This is for 3 children and I have more than 50 cloth diapers,but the others were free ones.I used the 'covers' section and just filled in how much I spent per diaper and how many I purchased.












    Obviously every family is different and so this won't be accurate for everyone.


    Now that I've listed the things to need to put money into,I'm going to go over the benefits of cloth diapering.

    Lets start with financial advantages:

    1) No more $$ on disposables!

    I like this because I was having to buy 3 different sizes every two weeks;with the cloth I purchased mostly one size and it fits all three!
    Even the generic/low end brands of disposables cost an average of 17 cents per diaper (of course this depends on the amount of diapers which varies by diaper size).
    And you are just throwing those diapers away!
    With Cloth,you can use them for many babies to come or resell them for around 50-80% of your money back (obviously depending on how worn they are).

    2) Other ways

    A) We aren't using HALF the trash bags we were when we diapered with disposables;hubby is grateful because now he only takes out the garbage 2 times in a week where before it was almost every day!)

    B) Although we are needing to wash the diapers regularly,we no longer wash big heavy loads of bedding and extra changes of clothing!

    C) Less leaks and explosions mean less bathing for stinky babies! Not that baths aren't needed,but there were times they'd just had a bath the night before and then needed one the next morning.


    Now, there are also other advantages to cloth

    1.No rashes.
    Of course with any diaper you need to change them often and there are always exceptions,but the cloth fabric is so soft and wicks away the moisture really well.

    2.No worrying about when you'll need to pick up more diapers from the store!

    3.Back to that amazingly soft fabric.Babies love softness and cloth diapers are very soft!

    4.It's so much better on the environment! Plastic/paper diapers sit and stink in a landfill for longer than we even know before they degrade.Yuck!

    5.Cloth diapers are awfully cute! I can't wait for next summer to let the boys just run around outside in them!

    6.They cushion and protect at least one part of a wobbly baby's body!


    7.They are fun to buy and waiting for fluffy mail is exciting!


    8.There are toxins in disposables that we don't know the long term affects of yet.

    For more information visit:
    http://www.realdiaperassociation.org/diaperfacts.php

    For the diaper calculator:
    http://www.diaperpin.com/calculator/calculator.asp

    If you would like to try cloth diapers,I HIGHLY recommend this site for great deals,free shipping on orders over $49 and an excellent rewards program!
    Click here to visit Kelly's Closet